Domestic Disipline

I'm quite positive that when done correctly, Spankings will reduce the likely hood of Domestic Violence in most marriages and using Jujitsu well will reduce injuries should violence occur. Like Skydiving, it isn't for everyone and has to be done as safely as possible or, injuries could occour. In all three activities, the whole point is to have some serious fun without making an impact on the earth that injures you. All human activities have risks as does lack of exercise. The human body is fragile and I can promise you that you are going to die from illness or, injury. There's absolutely zero doubt about that, anyone who argues with you about that isn't worth speaking with. Life is all about what risks we are willing to take in order to get the rewards we desire, it's always a gamble and one day, you're out of the game by losing your life. It's a sure bet and you will take nothing with you when you leave this Earth. Go for broke!

We all set our own limits and settle into our own comfort zones, but we live with more intensity when we push our limits a bit. Take it as a great compliment when a normal person calls you crazy, it's because you are well out of their pathetic comfort zone. I tried too hard to conform to what my wife considered normal, but I just couldn't handle it and wasn't respected for the effort I put into trying. The only thing I want to be "normal" about me are my vital signs. Fuck even trying to be normal, I tried that shit, it sucks.

We must respect each other's limits, but that doesn't mean we have to conform to them. I recommend couples who are new to BDSM start off slowly with light implements such as a Wooden Spoon. Lowe's and Home Depot have Free 5 gallon paint stirring sticks, they need to be sanded or, I like to cover them with duct tape. They are good to experiment with by putting duct tape past the tip, trying various lengths from a couple inches, to a 18" whip of duct tape stuck to itself. So bam! just like that you are diving into the BDSM world just by buying a roll of duct tape. I'm going to make custom paddles and whips and put together a Starter Kit for couples. I made all of my own implements except for riding crops, but I'll probably make them too. I might sell them on this website. I work with Leather and can make all sorts of fun stuff with it. I suggest a good thick leather strap about 4" wide for giving a man a punishment spanking, but some candy asses might not be able to take it, at least they work up to it. I'll have all sorts of implements and toys once I build my dungeon, couples can try whatever they want to.

I highly recommend having at least one spanking session every week and making it a firm date/appointment. It could be just a simple OTK (Over The Knee) Hand spanking for 15 minutes. The Queen of OTK implements is a Hairbrush, but a Ping Pong paddle or, Ruler should be used too. It's all about your comfort zone, nothing wrong with taking it easy to build your tolerance, but I can assure you that investing at least 15 minutes a week in kink is going to improve your marriage dramatically. There should be a contract or, at minimum emails where you discuss limits and such, but the key thing is proof of consent. My wife threatened to have me arrested if I even tried to spank her over the last five years before she kicked me out of the house. There's no doubt in my mind she would have, she called them on me the day I filed for divorce saying I was "being abusive" by asking her to stay with our daughter who lived 40 miles away for as long as I was gone camping. She claimed that I was "kicking her out of the house". This was after filing a Fraudulent PFA (Protection From Abuse) Order against me. Gentlemen, cover your ass legally even if you don't think you need to because if you don't, you will be subject to arrest, there are thousands of innocent men in prison today because they didn't. Any accusation made against you is believed, true or not. It cost me everything, but did get me out of a living hell.

I'll be adding links to websites that go into greater depth about Domestic Disipline soon and highly suggest you look at the Spencer Spanking Plan. Some people might try to tell you what a terrible idea this is and accuse you of abuse just for thinking about it, saying that it's unbliblical and a sin. Bullshit, just obey the Trinity of BDSM, Safe, Sane and Consentual and it isn't a sin. There's a verse in Ephesians 4 that many hypocrite women hate that says "Wives submit to your husbands" they think it doesn't apply to them and twist it into something it's not. You should obey the Bible and she should obey you to a reasonable degree, if she doesn't and won't accept loving Disipline from you, all I can say is that you better start preparing to escape because when she goes legal on you, you're going to get screwed big time and there won't be a damned thing you can do about it.

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