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This is what my marriage ended up being exclusively, I was happy to take all the spankings she was willing to give me if I could just get a hand job every so often. I don't think even normal people would think that would be too much for a husband to ask from his wife, but the authorities and cosmic powers over this present darkness, sure as hell thought it was. She listed spanking paddles as weapons in the PFA that she filed against me, none of them were used on her, they were only used on me both physically and Legally. Gentlemen, this is why you absolutely must have Silver Bullet proof of consent to engage in any sort of BDSM at any level. She wouldn't even submit to me enough to let me tie her up and tickle her. That's why I'm much more in favor of the Dorthy Spencer Spanking plan where couples switch Dom and Sub roles regularly and spankings are on at least a weekly basis. I believe that it needs to be balanced to be healthy for a good marriage, not that there's anything wrong with tipping the scale one way or the other, but there has to be at least some role switching in my humble opinion. You just have to respect each other's limits and the man's limt should far exceed those of the woman. In other words, he outta be able to take a helluva lot harder ass whoopin' than she would ever be expected to. In my humble opinion, both partners should be able to withstand a 10-15 minute OTK spanking with a Hairbrush without calling Red. Some ladies may not be able to take it that hard at first, but should be able to work up to that level over a few months. It's not a real spanking unless your ass is good and red for at least a little while. You should be able to accomplish that with just a hand spanking. Whatever gives you a slap happy good time, just establish limits in an agreement of some sort, there are plenty of sample contracts to use as a template. May BDSM enrich your marriage and help you to better communicate your frustrations with each other in a Safe, Sane and Consentual way. Oh and ladies, you will know if your man likes it or not by how erect he gets, his "fun meter" is incapable of lying.

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